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Nuff said: Saving Daylight, the church “stand and greet time,” the iPhone cone, why go to church and more
In this "Nuff said" entry, you'll learn about the new movie "Saving Daylight," why people hate the church "stand and greet time," the iPhone cone, and you'll hear why you should go to church. Heck, you'll even get tips on writing. So drop by and read, comment and share.
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The movie that needs to happen.. about Daylight Saving Time
HT: Jamie Sanchez for posting on her FB wall
The Stand and Greet time at church… taboo?
Does your church do a “stand and greet time?” Ours does. And then I read this article. We had a discussion about in our staff meeting time this week, and we were inconclusive. Our excuse for continuing? We think our church enjoys it… because we’re actually friendly. However, is that a conclusion that is delusional simply because we’re leaders of that church? I’d be really interested in your feedback here in the comments!
Here are the seven reasons from the article about why people don’t like it:
Many guests are introverts.
Some guests perceive that the members are not sincere during the time of greeting.
Many guests don’t like the lack of hygiene that takes place during this time.
Many times the members only greet other members.
Both members and guests at some churches perceive the entire exercise is awkward.
In some churches, the people in the congregation are told to say something silly to one another.
Not only do some guests dread the stand and greet time, so do some members.
Sandy Young, one of the elders at Blacksburg Christian Fellowship, posted this quote by C.S. Lewis on his blog about why Lewis got over himself and started attending church:
“I thought that I could do it on my own, by retiring to my rooms and reading theology, and I wouldn’t go to the churches. . . But as I went on I saw the great merit of it. I came up against different people of quite different outlooks and different education, and then gradually my conceit just began peeling off. I realized that the hymns (which were just sixth-rate music) were, nevertheless, being sung with devotion and benefit by an old saint in elastic-side boots in the opposite pew, and then you realize that you aren’t fit to clean those boots. It gets you out of your solitary conceit.” (C. S. Lewis)
Here’s a quick, helpful article about making your church announcements more readable and understandable for an information-overloaded culture.
Nuff said.. for now.
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Samantha Paul
November 7, 2014 2:13 pm
So, I’ll admit I haven’t read the article against greeting in church yet (I’m in line at the bank). However, I love that we have a greeting time. It gives me an opportunity to step out of my comfort zone and greet those that are new, or at least new to me. Granted, some days can be quite awkward, but some are so fruitful! For example, one morning I really wanted to catch up with the friend sitting beside me, but I noticed a woman standing alone. So, I chose to greet her. Turns out she has been going to… Read more »
Hey Sam! Thanks for leaving such a thoughtful comment. Not only did you bring up some great points, but it was also a polemic for strategic, loving intentionality at church. Love hearing both of those stories.
I think the article had in mind some of the more stoic, traditional church greetings which seem forced and in authentic.
So, I’ll admit I haven’t read the article against greeting in church yet (I’m in line at the bank). However, I love that we have a greeting time. It gives me an opportunity to step out of my comfort zone and greet those that are new, or at least new to me. Granted, some days can be quite awkward, but some are so fruitful! For example, one morning I really wanted to catch up with the friend sitting beside me, but I noticed a woman standing alone. So, I chose to greet her. Turns out she has been going to… Read more »
Hey Sam! Thanks for leaving such a thoughtful comment. Not only did you bring up some great points, but it was also a polemic for strategic, loving intentionality at church. Love hearing both of those stories.
I think the article had in mind some of the more stoic, traditional church greetings which seem forced and in authentic.